Thursday, July 28, 2011

How To Date An Hausa Girl, 10 Steps To Make Her Want You

Dating a hausa girl seems to be the most easiest and hardest stuff when It's mean to be. But the real dating tips is getting on how to date a hausa girl or Nigerian girl. Before we go further, know that one can find it easily to date a hausa lady only when you know the mentality and needs of the girls around. Being in hausa land for quite a long time has given me some clue of dating with a hausa girl easily without getting myself disturbed or any fear of getting 'bounced' or rejected.

1. First, when setting up a date with any girl , remember to act normally and get familiar with them easily. You can get familiar with them by doing what they're doing, but with some kind of difference in order to get recognized easily among other guys.

2. Next thing is to check whether your date-target is dating with another guy or not. If she's dating with another guy, its better to leave her and look for another date. Why? Every hausa girl has a mentality that when she's on a date for the first time, she won't listen to any guy again, unless her date broke her heart. So, if you still need her, you could take over only when they are separated.

3. Dating a hausa girl is easy only when her parents are not too harsh when they saw her with a guy. So, give her the time to let her family know a little bit about you and show them you don't have any bad intension towards her.

4. After that, promise her some simple gifts that you can afford but don't give her the present at the appointed time. Keep it long until she gets tasty of you.

5. Get away and stay long without getting in touch or calling her. Take a time and call her, so that you'll know whether she missed you or not. If she missed you, she would insist that you should come back, but if not, she'll just be angry or even think that you are a cheat.

Beware of over protective brothers

6. Most hausa families are over protective when it comes to dating. You have to handle that very carefully if you really want to succeed in dating that hausa girl.

The only way you can handle those over protective brothers is by;

First, make sure that you can speak hausa language. Even if you cannot speak hausa, learn how to keep the company of this brothers. Meet them, gist with them as you're all friends. Hausa people are so friendly but only when they know you a little bit. When you're a bit close to her brothers, you can start your date and their would be no harm even when they know about it.
You can even gist about her but only when you think it's proper, so they won't take you as somebody who is harmful and want to play some game. Take note, don't show that you need something apart from just talking to her because you are going to spoil everything.

What To Wear When Dating a Hausa Girl

7. Hausa girls got much conscience and very strong emotions about dressing. "Your mode of dressing and clothing determines which kind of person you are" this is highly patronized in hausa land especially among the ladies. So, When you put on short T-shirts and jeans all the time, then your success will be about 45 to 50 percent.

8. Wear a moderate cloth like suite but mostly i recommend the big hausa men clothings (babban-riga). Why? Even though you succeed dating an hausa girl with short dresses, she'll always recommend you to wear the "big type" even if not often. That is where she'll be proud of you. Your new hausa date will always like to see you with that.

Taking a Hausa Date to The next Level

9. Hausa girls like necklaces and earrings, so be sensitive to that. When you have enough money to spend on her, then you can buy as many as you like. This will increase the love from her, 99% percent of every girl's need is what she'll wear in order to look more attractive. So, she would be very happy to see that you spend on her through necklaces, earrings etc. But if you're just a student like me and can't spend much on her, just buy one of them and wrap it as a gift even once in a 'while' and present it to her occasionally. This is where love would be mixed up with much affection.

Show what you know

10. Most hausa girls like a guy that is brilliant and smart. When you're talking, link your gist to/with your academic knowledge. This is when she'll now boast about you to her friends. But remember don't do this too often, because it can be somehow boring and boastfull. Do it when ever you got the chance and when you think it is proper.

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